As we head into the holiday season, life can quickly fill up with to-do lists, gatherings, and endless activity. It can be hard to focus on slowing down, staying connected to God, and finding peace in the middle of all the busyness. We asked a few of our staff members to share how they stay grounded during this busy time of year.

Danielle P.

Something that my husband, Blake, and I have been practicing each month is a monthly Sabbath. It’s a day we set aside to disconnect from the noise, slow down, and get grounded. We use that time to rest, reflect, and reconnect — with God and with each other — before stepping back into the rhythm of everyday life.

I also really cherish my morning time – I like to do my quiet time at a coffee shop in town, so I can be focused in on the Word (plus have a cozy cup of coffee!) and not be distracted by my surroundings. 

Meghan H.

One way I try and slow down during the holidays is to start early. It’s a running joke that I love Christmas so much that I start celebrating in July, and I DO love the holidays (especially Christmas) but honestly the choice to start early is a deliberate one. I noticed that I was rushing through the things I loved, trying to cram everything into two weeks, and it was just stressing me out and leaving me feeling exhausted and empty.

So instead, I go slow. I decorate early so I’m not rushing to do it later. Instead of trying to do everything, I pick the things that are important to me, and focus on quality over quantity. I try and stay present in the moment; work and social life can be hectic during these weeks, so I put a lot of effort into setting aside time to be quiet, and when unexpected slow moments appear I try to lean in, instead of rushing to fill it with a to-do list. (This is easier said than done, but any amount of slowness, however small, during this season is a victory)

Alex M.

This might sound a bit cliché for the season, but I find that practicing gratitude helps me stay grounded and present, especially when everything around me is pulling me toward wanting and wishing for more.

James G.

One of my favorite traditions during the holiday season is spending time reflecting on the themes of Advent. Each week, I focus on one of the key words of the season—hope, peace, love, and joy—and intentionally pray through that theme. Throughout the week, I look for ways to experience and recognize God’s presence through that particular word. For instance, during the week of hope, I might reflect on promises fulfilled and look for moments where hope shows up in unexpected places. It’s a simple but meaningful practice that helps me stay grounded in the true spirit of the season and deepens my connection with God in a busy time of year.

Something we do every month here at Hoboken Grace is our Monthly Rhythms, a simple yet powerful way to deepen your walk with Christ. By heading to the Rhythms section in our app, you can engage with our monthly memory verse, meditation passage, and reflective prompts designed to guide you in a day of solitude. Each month also includes communion and fasting practices that connect to the verse we’re walking through, to help build intentional spiritual rhythms that renew your heart and focus. We invite you to join us through these rhythms as a meaningful way to stay connected to God’s presence and to help intentionally schedule times throughout your day to reignite your conversation with Him.